This book is long past due. The author begins this book with his own story and how he handled it. Among the topics he discusses are the flashbacks and nightmares, his anger at God, the effects the abuse had on his life, and learning to forgive the abuser and himself.

The second half of his book speaks to women and how they can help heal the men they love . Among the topics discussed: learning to accept his unspeakable problem, believe in him and help him believe in himself, let him know you care and keep reminding him, pray for him, and listen to him.

The author is quick to remind women that you can’t heal for him. This book is written with great compassion and understanding. Kudos to the author for sharing his story and for helping others to understand.