This is a book that I chose to read and review, not because it is a “fun” read, or a delightful subject, far from it. I’m glad I read it because I learned so much about something that people are reluctant to talk about, but it must be talked about. I’m talking about sexual assault. In Sexual Assault Watchdog: Survivor’s Guide, Heidi Carlisle gives advice to victims of this horrendous crime as only someone who has been a victim can. This makes a huge difference compared to the advice of well meaning people, whether family, friends or sympathetic professionals who just haven’t been there. Heidi has an authentic voice and I think it will have a huge impact on somebody’s life. She wrote this book to help. I think she will.

Sexual Assault Watchdog: Survivor’s Guide is well written and easy to read. Just as importantly, it is well organized so the reader can find the information he or she needs in a timely manner. It starts with a look at how our culture and society views the problem, and how this view can sometimes be an obstacle to victims and an impediment to those who genuinely want to help. There is also a lot of information in Sexual Assault Watchdog about free resources available to victims at levels ranging from State to Federal. Heidi Carlisle also talks about her personal experience and offers encouragement and comfort. I hope I never need this book. I hope no one else ever does. But they will. I’m glad it’s there for them.

Sexual Assault Watchdog: Survivor’s Guide is a personal account of the emotional trauma experienced by author Heidi Carlisle. According to Ms. Carlisle, society as a whole is a harsh judge of sexual assault victims. She explained that 98% of rapists do not serve any jail time! She further related that she was raped and the court chose to believe the actual rapist’s account of the assault and not her own. Most rape victims like herself are treated like second class citizens when they are interviewed by uncaring, insensitive personnel, especially those in the court system. She referred to this treatment as rape culture, as most victims feel as though they are being raped again (emotionally) by the system. Ms. Carlisle is really championing the rights of other victims. She provides helpful tips for everyone to follow so as to regain a normal life after a sexual assault.

Sexual Assault Watchdog: Survivor’s Guide is an extremely revealing book. I love the fact that the author chose to be brave and educate the public about the intricacies of the court and government systems. I also love the bright colours of the book cover. In my mind, the drawing of the sun signifies hope for all sexual assault survivors. It is so important for all readers to realize that, through this novel, help is literally a page away. The language used is semi-formal to reflect the serious message being conveyed. The inclusion of actual addresses and contact information for the non-profit and governmental agencies is an added bonus. This wealth of information provided by author Heidi Carlisle could turn out to be a life saver for victims of rape. Overall, Sexual Assault Watchdog: Survivor’s Guide is an eye opener. I applaud Ms. Carlisle for extending her courtesy by writing this novel to assist victims of sexual assault worldwide.