As writers, we have to wait for almost everything. From waiting from feedback from publishers, editors, readers, potential clients or agents, there is no way we can escape having to wait. Waiting can be grueling and unbearable, but we can make it easier for ourselves. Here are some tips to help you wait better.

Tip #1 - Keep yourself busy

Having different on-going activities will help keep your mind off a pending response. As you wait, work on other engagements that are different from the one you are waiting on. This means that you should fill your schedule with different writing-related activities so that you can avoid boredom and not have your mind wander off. The less time you have to think about an outcome, the less time you will have to feel worried about it.

Tip #2 - Accept your inability to change things

When you feel stressed from waiting, remind yourself that you have done your part and getting anxious will not change your circumstances. This may be easier said than done but having this particular conversation with yourself is especially important because you will be able to stop anxious thoughts before they flood your mind.

We live in an activity-driven world where being still is frowned upon. Somehow we crave movement and we have a high intolerance for calmness and stillness. Everywhere we turn we are surrounded by noise and the pressure to be something and move towards something. Still, it is these moments of inactivity that allow us time to reflect.

Tip #3 - Try out stress reducing activities

Find out which activities you can engage in to reduce your stress levels. Activities such as exercising, taking a walk or biking can help to reduce anxiety since they calm the mind. The effects of stress on your physical and mental health can be damaging, so learning how to manage anxiety is important for any writer.

Tip #4 - Deal with the outcome beforehand

Reminding yourself that whatever happens and whatever the result you will still be okay will reduce chances of you constantly worrying as you await a reply. Think of the worst possible scenario and list a number of ways you can deal with such a situation. Even as you remain hopeful, it is important to be realistic and keep in mind that not every query letter, idea, article or any other writing job will be accepted. Keeping an open mind will allow you to bounce back more quickly and continue improving even if things do not go your way.

Tip #5 - Be kind to yourself

Do not push yourself too hard. Remember to be kind to yourself and be proud of your accomplishments so far. Knowing that you are not defined by acceptance or rejection will help you continue moving forward. Also look for different opportunities and do not peg your hopes only on one option. You never know what will work and what will not. Be flexible, but most importantly, remember you are a human being with flaws but also strengths.