Rosemary's Way

Finding Light in Life's Darkest Seasons

Non-Fiction - Memoir
407 Pages
Reviewed on 09/22/2026
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Reviewed by Jamie Michele for Readers' Favorite

In Rosemary’s Way, Spring Courtright recounts the years in which changes in her mother Rosemary’s memory begin reshaping their close relationship. Repeated questions about an upcoming honeymoon first raise concern, leading to medical appointments as Rosemary thought about the future as she watched her own mother experience dementia. An Alzheimer’s diagnosis leads Rosemary to tell her daughter she wants to choose VSED, a method of hastening death by voluntarily ending oral intake at a point when she can still make that decision for herself. Her daughter begins learning what the process involves, helping Rosemary document her wishes before they determine the signs that will tell them the time has come. Their preparation moves through life in her Bainbridge Island co-housing community as the two spend more time together, always returning to the independence Rosemary values so strongly.

Spring Courtright’s Rosemary’s Way is an exceptional memoir, and she writes about Rosemary with such affection that I soon felt I knew the woman behind the red rain jacket. I loved how naturally their playfulness comes through at a lake, where Rosemary lets her daughter carry her through the water like a child before returning the favor, leaving them both laughing. The humor is wonderful during an outing with Rosemary’s friend Patsy, who takes them to Bainbridge Island’s Wacky Nut Community Garden. Rosemary sees a sign advertising rosemary plants for five dollars, then jokes, “What a deal! You can get me cheap today!” So much of the memoir is helpful to families considering end-of-life decisions, and every explanation remains grounded in Rosemary’s own wishes. Well written and inspiring, readers who appreciate mother-daughter memoirs will adore this, as I did.

Rosemary's Way

I've been through so much after losing my own mom and watching some of my closest friends pass away, so picking up Rosemary's Way really struck a chord with me. Honestly, it didn't even feel like reading a book; it felt like sitting on the couch with a close friend who truly understands, talking openly about the kind of heavy, messy grief that can be hard for people to bring up.

Spring captures the difficult reality of watching a vibrant, independent mom slowly slip away to Alzheimer's. If you've cared for a sick parent, you may recognize that particular, slow-motion heartbreak: grieving someone even while they're still right there with you. Spring doesn't sugarcoat the experience, but she also brings out the beautiful, funny, deeply personal moments that shine through along the way.

What really stayed with me was the focus on choice and dignity. When you're watching someone you love die, it can feel like there’s nothing you can do. Seeing Rosemary make the brave, deeply personal decision to take control of her own timeline through VSED, and watching Spring stand firmly by her side through all the legal and medical red tape, was incredibly moving. It's a powerful reminder of what it means to honor someone's final wishes, even when society makes it difficult.

Even in the book's darkest moments, there's still laughter, a close-knit community on Bainbridge Island, and a shared bond that helps everyone carry on. It reminded me that loss doesn't have to overwhelm us completely. Even Rosemary’s choice to leave this earth by having her body composted felt like a peaceful, thoughtful way to bring things full circle.

If you've ever walked through the fire of losing your mom or a best friend, please read this. It won't erase the ache, but it's a massive comfort to know we aren't walking this path alone.