Tinderbox

One Family's Story of Adoption, Neurodiversity, and Fierce Love

Non-Fiction - Memoir
296 Pages
Reviewed on 05/16/2023
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Reviewed by Maryann Namayi for Readers' Favorite

Tinderbox: One Family's Story of Adoption, Neurodiversity, and Fierce Love by Lynn Alsup is a compelling memoir that details the experiences of an adoptive mother as she navigates the intricacies of infertility, cross-cultural adoption, and raising neurodiverse children. Lynn's narrative is characterized by unwavering resilience, optimism, and love as she reflects on her time in Haiti and the obstacles she encountered. Despite theoretical debates surrounding race, injustice, and poverty, she embraces the idea of adoption and chooses to adopt a child from Haiti. Later in her journey, she grapples with fetal alcohol spectrum disorder (FASD), which affects one in twenty American children. But what does this mean for her? Lynn's story is a powerful testament to the strength of faith and belief and the crucial role of support from loved ones.

Lynn Alsup's Tinderbox provides valuable insights into cross-cultural adoption for parents considering this path. The memoir highlights the importance of courage and resilience in overcoming adversity and serves as a guide for managing emotions through therapy and behavioral psychology. In addition to being a memoir, this is a love story between Lynn and her husband, Jeff, as they embark on their journey together. Their story is one of triumph as they navigate the challenges of parenting and raising children with neurodiversity. After discovering the FASCETS Neurobehavioral Model, a strengths-based approach to accommodating and celebrating neurodiversity, Lynn and her family find strength and comfort. Tinderbox is recommended for anyone interested in adoption, parenting, or seeking inspiration in the face of adversity. This narrative is a powerful reminder that anything is possible with courage, resilience, and love.