Staying Alive Is a Lot of Work: Me and My Cancer by Pat Camalliere is a memoir recounting Camalliere's journey after discovering a lump on her tongue in November 2017, leading to a cancer diagnosis. After earning a biology degree from Saint Xavier College and raising two sons before the diagnosis, she shares the beginning of her chemotherapy and radiation therapy. She talks about discussions on nausea with her doctor, resulting in adjustments to her medication. Looking back again at her divorce in 1980, Pat describes balancing her medical career and family life with support from friends. As treatment progressed, she adapted her routine to manage side effects and kept a journal. Reflecting on her mother's final days, Pat recognized parallels to her own experience and found joy in small moments, such as tasting food at family gatherings, while expressing a desire to pursue personal goals, including performing at Carnegie Hall.

In Staying Alive Is a Lot of Work, Pat Camalliere gives readers a genuinely personal walk-along in her cancer journey, showing us both her difficulties and triumphs. Camalliere's writing is clear and conversational, and she manages the balancing act of frequent transitions between her life before and after her diagnosis really well. Camalliere's willingness to share her childhood, her formative years in Oak Lawn, and her relationships, show us where her resilience comes from. The candid portrayal of her treatment process, especially its physical and emotional toll, will be relatable to those going through cancer, and helpful to those supporting another who is. Overall, Camalliere's memoir stands as a testament to her determination and the importance of community in overcoming adversity, inspiring readers to find strength in life’s challenges. But, the greatest message is to embrace little joys while keeping one's eye on the big prize, which Camalliere accomplishes. Very highly recommended.

Pat Camalliere's memoir, Staying Alive is a Lot of Work: Me and My Cancer, is an incredibly intimate and open account of the author's fight with cancer. The story begins with a shocking discovery that upends her comfortable retirement life and sets her on a terrifying journey through diagnosis, treatment, and the uncertainty that comes with serious illness. Camalliere uses her experience in writing historical fiction to tell compelling stories that immerse readers in her world as she battles the psychological and physical effects of cancer. A genuine portrayal of determination and the struggle for survival is presented in this memoir, which is woven with details about her life, family, and the support system that sustains her.

Pat Camalliere writes in an honest, approachable style that combines personal views with medical information to create an insightful and poignant read. The storyline follows her journey from the initial shock of being diagnosed to the stages of therapy, creating an engaging arc that allows readers to experience her highs and lows. With a steady pace, there's plenty of time to absorb every step without feeling rushed. While reading, I was reminded of my aunt, who also battled cancer, and I found comfort in the shared experiences and emotions portrayed in Camalliere's narrative. The importance of family, bravery, and perseverance are carefully discussed, and the author's voice is kind, straightforward, and humorous. Staying Alive is a Lot of Work is a testament to the bravery required to adjust in the face of hardship and a motivational read for anyone wishing to comprehend the human capacity to endure and overcome a life-threatening illness.