Painting A Family


Fiction - Womens
244 Pages
Reviewed on 11/09/2025
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Reviewed by Jennifer Senick for Readers' Favorite

Painting a Family by Mary Anne Kalonas Slack follows several generations of O’Connell women as they discover what family, home, and forgiveness truly mean. It begins with Jane, a teenage dreamer from Woonsocket, Rhode Island, whose hopes of becoming an artist are challenged by duty, marriage, and motherhood. As the years unfold, her four daughters, Francesca, Luisa, Eileen, and Maggie, each contend with their own choices and consequences: a failing marriage, a secret that could upend their lives, and the pull between independence and belonging. Moving between past and present, the novel layers their stories to reveal how old wounds and unspoken truths ripple across time. Set against the backdrops of Cape Cod, Boston, New York, and Florence, this multigenerational tale explores identity, resilience, and the enduring ties—both comforting and complicated—that bind them together.

As someone who loves genealogy and family history, Painting a Family by Mary Anne Kalonas Slack was right up my alley. It’s the kind of book I could easily picture unfolding in my mind, like going through a box of old photographs and rediscovering people you thought you already understood. I appreciated how the author didn’t rush any one person’s journey; instead, she gave every person space to speak for themselves, allowing their flaws and strengths to shine through. Jane was my favorite character. She’s resilient and imperfect in a way that felt genuine. I didn’t always agree with her, but I could always understand her decisions. What stood out most were the complex bonds between the women—their conflicts, their loyalty, and the quiet ways forgiveness sneaks up on them when they least expect it. This book surprised me with how real and familiar it felt, and I found myself rooting for each of them, even in their messiest moments.

Grant Leishman

Painting A Family by Mary Anne Kalonas Slack is a wonderful exposé of family dynamics across generations and the insidious danger of secrets that can destroy trust and increase tensions within the familial circle. Growing up in the 1960s and 70s in a strict Catholic household, Jane had dreams of becoming a great artist and following her dreams to Italy, but that was not what good Catholic girls did back then; they got married, settled down, and had babies. Determined to break her parental shackles, Jane did manage to indulge her fantasy, but when she met and fell in love with pharmacist Tim O’Connell, she did settle down, and the couple produced four wonderful daughters. As each daughter grew to maturity and left the nest, relationships between mother and daughters varied widely. With daughter Eileen, though, some radical and tough decision-making would be required. Jane’s decisions would have far-reaching ramifications for the extended O’Connell family and test the bounds of love, loyalty, and family ties.

Painting a Family is a wonderfully easy-to-read, relatively short, and truly enchanting story told from multiple perspectives. Author Mary Anne Kalonas Slack’s decision to tell each member’s journey from their own perspective allows readers to see all sides of their lives from their own viewpoint and allows us to identify with and empathize with different points of view. What makes this story work so well is the familiarity of the family dynamics. Each of us will be able to identify with various members of the family and understand their position, problems, and frustrations. We all operate within some form of family environment, and much of what this family endures and struggles with will ring true for many people. Perhaps not surprisingly, I identified with Tim, who invariably found himself in the middle of either his warring wife and daughters or the siblings themselves, trying to play the part of peacemaker or conciliator. I particularly enjoyed the youngest daughter, Maggie, who had much more insight and understanding than anyone was prepared to credit to one so young. It reminds us that we may think we are hiding things from our children or our siblings, but often we are only fooling ourselves. The overarching theme of the corrosiveness of family secrets permeates beautifully throughout the book. I enjoyed this read immensely and highly recommend it.

Carmen Tenorio

Mary Anne Kalonas Slack’s Painting A Family centers on Jane O’Connell, a devoted mother whose picture-perfect Cape Cod family begins to fracture when her teenage daughter, Eileen, becomes pregnant. Pressured by fear and propriety, Jane sends Eileen away to end the pregnancy, only to learn years later that her daughter secretly gave birth and arranged an adoption. The revelation, long buried, unravels Jane’s marriage to Tim and strains her relationships with their four daughters: Francesca, Luisa, Eileen, and Maggie. As the daughters face their own adult struggles of career pressures, miscarriages, and coming out, Jane must confront her past and redefine her identity, being a parent, forgiveness, and family. Will there ever come a time when the relationships that eroded under the strain of secrecy, emotional distance, and unresolved guilt be restored and rebuilt on compassion, understanding, shared dreams, and family devotion?

Mary Anne Kalonas Slack’s Painting a Family is a deeply emotional, multigenerational novel about love, loss, secrets, and the healing power of forgiveness. Told through shifting perspectives and time, the novel explores how shame, silence, and maternal guilt ripple across generations. It unfolds with unhurried, reflective pacing that shows the rhythm of real life. The action is largely emotional rather than physical, driven by moments of truth, regret, and reconciliation rather than dramatic events. Character development is the book’s greatest strength. Each character matures through their own personal trials, as seen in the different ways they react, resist, and are affected by the tension built by expectations, choices, and misunderstandings. We witness transformations as they evolve in believable, deeply human ways. Major themes include motherhood, guilt, secrecy, forgiveness, and redemption. It also explores identity, independence, the human struggle to uphold moral duty, and the triumph of emotional truth over factual control. It also demonstrates how art can facilitate self-discovery, wholeness, self-expression, healing, and harmony. This will resonate most with readers who enjoy the authentic and honest approach in modern fiction and the introspective style and symbolism in literary prose. Recommended to fans of literary domestic family sagas, women’s fiction, and coming-of-age dramas.

Christian Sia

Painting a Family by Mary Anne Kalonas Slack is a compelling multigenerational saga that explores the tension within a family, fueled by secrets, change, and the desire to let love prevail. Jane grew up in a strict Catholic upbringing in the 1960s and 1970s, where girls were expected to marry well and have children. Dreaming of becoming an artist, she dared to pursue her passion. Then she met Tim O’Connell, married him, and they raised four daughters. As her children approach adulthood, Jane’s world is suddenly turned upside down by a challenge she never anticipated. Balancing her dreams with her family’s expectations, Jane’s journey reveals the struggles and sacrifices of a woman striving to forge her own path while holding her family together.

I enjoyed the opening, which features a strong premise. Jane unexpectedly learns that her rebellious daughter, Eileen, is pregnant and contemplating motherhood. Mary Anne Kalonas Slack is clever in introducing the themes of abortion and family drama, slowly drawing the reader into the world of this family and Jane’s journey. The settings span picturesque Cape Cod, the historical streets of Florence, Italy, and bustling New York City, providing a rich backdrop to the story. I had a strong sense of place and time as I read this engaging narrative. I also loved that the characters are vividly drawn. Jane is the dedicated artist and mother seeking independence; Eileen, the defiant pregnant teen; Francesca, the ambitious woman redefining her life amid marital upheaval; and Luisa, the aspiring graphic designer struggling with her identity crisis. Painting a Family is the perfect book for readers who enjoy family drama, unforgettable characters, and stories that explore artistic expression, familial bonds, secrets, and personal growth. I enjoyed everything, from the beautiful writing to the realistic characters.

Frank Mutuma

In Painting A Family by Mary Anne Kalonas Slack, Jane had a complex and often controversial relationship with her mother during her formative years. She was interested in art, and with the help of her teacher and grandmother, she was able to attend art school. During her college days, she met Tim, whom she eventually married. During their early years, Tim runs a family business, which enables him to spend time with his family. As his responsibilities increase, Tim is forced to take on another job, which requires him to be away from his family most of the time. Jane has to deal with their four daughters alone. Aileen is the most rebellious. She gets pregnant just as she is about to graduate high school. How will things turn out as Jane looks forward to new beginnings and deals with various aspects of her daughters, which she didn’t know existed?

If you love a book with strong female characters, Painting A Family by Mary Anne Kalonas Slack will not disappoint. Mary crafted a highly emotive story of human connections that will leave its audiences contemplating the complex nature of choices and their consequences. I loved the theme of tolerance, and I believe such literature is a step in the right direction in addressing prejudices against minorities. The characters were well-developed, and readers will also appreciate the writing style, which is engaging and filled with well-crafted dialogue that brings the story to life. The amazing narrative also added to the overall beauty of the work. This is a great read, and I look forward to more by this talented author.