Don't Cry in America

A Memoir of Unexpected Journeys, Family Love, and the Sport of Wrestling

Non-Fiction - Memoir
394 Pages
Reviewed on 07/04/2025
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Author Biography

Antonio "Tony" Russo has been teaching and coaching in the state of Oregon for over thirty years. He was born in Roccarainola, Italy (a province of Naples), in 1940 and immigrated to the U.S. alone at the age of ten in 1951 with just the shirt on his back and salami and provolone cheese in his suitcase. Antonio graduated from David Douglas High School in Portland and eventually went on to graduate from Arizona State University. Tony was presented with the National Wrestling Hall of Fame's Lifetime Service to Wrestling award in 2003.

Tonya Russo Hamilton enjoys traveling and volunteering in her local community. She also serves on the Board of Directors at Italian Portland, a 501 (c) (3) charitable nonprofit organization she founded that provides Italian cultural programming, events, and opportunities in the Greater Portland area.

    Book Review

Reviewed by Carol Thompson for Readers' Favorite

Don’t Cry in America is a memoir that chronicles Antonio Russo’s extraordinary journey from a small, poverty-stricken town in southern Italy to becoming one of America’s most celebrated high school wrestling coaches. Co-written with his daughter, Tonya Russo Hamilton, the book exemplifies the transformative power of sport. The narrative begins with Antonio’s early life in Roccarainola, Italy, where he grew up in hardship but surrounded by a close-knit family. At the age of ten, he was sent alone to America, a traumatic experience that shaped his determination to succeed. The memoir vividly recounts his struggles as an immigrant, from navigating cultural barriers to enduring loneliness and adversity. Yet, his discovery of wrestling becomes a metaphor for his life. It’s a sport that allows him to channel his aggression, find purpose, and ultimately thrive.

The book is filled with cultural details, particularly the role of food in Italian-American life, which is a comforting thread throughout Antonio’s story. The inclusion of family recipes adds a personal touch, inviting readers to experience the flavors of his heritage. Written in a conversational, first-person narrative, the memoir captures Antonio’s charismatic storytelling style, making the reader feel as though they are sitting across from him, listening to his tales. The Italian dialogue, interspersed with English, adds depth to the narrative. Don’t Cry in America is a story of perseverance, family, and the human spirit. It is a must-read for anyone seeking inspiration, a deeper understanding of the immigrant experience, or simply a heartfelt story of triumph against the odds. Antonio Russo and Tonya Russo Hamilton offer a tale of true grit and perseverance that is unlike any book you'll ever read.

K.C. Finn

Don’t Cry in America by Antonio Russo and Tonya Russo Hamilton is a heartfelt memoir of survival, identity, and transformation. We follow Antonio from being sent alone across the Atlantic at age ten to facing street fights and legal trouble in a new land. Tony’s story is a vivid portrait of immigration and coming-of-age in 20th-century America. His life finds unexpected direction through the sport of wrestling, leading him to become one of the most successful high school coaches in the nation. More than a sports memoir, this is a powerful chronicle of family, resilience, and the enduring ties between past and present.

Author team Antonio Russo and Tonya Russo Hamilton have a wonderful synergy in how to balance a smooth, confident storytelling style with plenty of real details, and that makes for a rich, cinematic immigrant story full of hope, grit, and personal growth. There’s plenty to relate to in Tony’s story, whatever your background may be, but sports fans in particular will be enraptured by how wrestling becomes a symbolic and literal anchor for transformation. Anyone who’s ever fallen into a sporting or competitive hobby community is sure to understand his connection and drive, and the writing style flows naturally with honest and emotional prose that makes it feel like he’s talking to you. This is also layered with unforgettable cultural and familial detail so that you feel like you’re part of the tribe as events unfold, evoking all the classic underdog narratives while remaining deeply personal and unique. Overall, I would certainly recommend Don’t Cry in America to fans of emotionally powerful memoirs and interesting true-life stories.

Ruffina Oserio

Don’t Cry in America by Antonio Russo and Tonya Russo Hamilton is an inspiring memoir that chronicles Antonio Russo’s extraordinary journey from the poverty-stricken hills of Naples to the bustling streets of Portland, Oregon. The book vividly depicts his childhood in a time of war, family struggles, and cultural upheaval. The memoir starts with the ten-year-old Russo being shipped off to America, alone, and across the sea, on a journey that will take days. He quickly understands that he has no choice but to grow up. He gets into fights, lands in the hospital, and eventually discovers the world of wrestling. Through a series of adventures—ranging from childhood mischief and intense wrestling matches to dealing with complex immigration issues—Russo shares valuable lessons on perseverance, family love, and the place of sport in personal struggle and development.

Antonio Russo and Tonya Russo Hamilton’s memoir reads like a well-crafted novel that explores a young boy’s adventure and his struggles with immigration to finding a home in America. I loved how the authors articulate the theme of belonging, highlighting that Russo’s considerable pride was in belonging to a town, a neighborhood, and a group of friends who help each other. The theme of identity and the immigrant’s relentless struggle to achieve is skillfully explored in this captivating memoir. Russo’s love for wrestling becomes a symbol for fighting through hardship, both on the mat and in life. His stories of hardship—such as surviving bombings, near-death experiences, and family separations—offer powerful lessons about life and hope. Don’t Cry in America delivers resonant themes, and I followed Antonio with keen interest. This book will speak to immigrants uniquely.

Christian Sia

In Don't Cry in America: A Memoir of Unexpected Journeys, Family Love, and the Sport of Wrestling, Antonio Russo and Tonya Russo Hamilton recount Antonio’s journey from Italy to America and what became of his life thereafter. At ten, the young Antonio is sent alone to America and undertakes a journey of eight days at sea, away from his family. What can go wrong? Tony quickly learns that he must be tough if he is to survive not only the journey but also America. He gets into fights, which lead to hospital visits, is entangled with the law, and eventually discovers wrestling, a sport that comes naturally to him. He embraces wrestling and eventually becomes one of the best wrestling coaches. This memoir is packed with lessons about life, perseverance, and hope, as it explores the struggles of immigrants navigating the US immigration system at the time.

Don't Cry in America is more than a memoir about wrestling. The book offers an engaging commentary on Italian culture, highlighting the significance of family rituals and the importance of bonding. I found the memoir to be very immersive, and the excellent writing made it even more enjoyable. Antonio Russo and Tonya Russo Hamilton successfully inject inspiring moments into the narrative. One example is about Tony’s determination to bring his family to Oregon, no matter the cost. This memoir expertly handles the theme of immigration and its disruption of traditional values, forcing individuals to forge new roots. The book conveys a driving message of hope beautifully captured in the wisdom of Tony’s mother: “If you work hard, good things will happen.” You’ll be entertained, uplifted, and inspired by this skillfully written memoir.