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How To Be A Neuro-Affirmative Parent: The Truth About Raising A Neurodivergent Child by Hwee Peng Tan is a guide for those parenting neurodivergent children, addressing the need for tailored support in wading through societal expectations, emotional distress, and behavioral issues. Tan talks about things like advocating for suitable educational settings that prioritize a child's well-being, and the importance of nurturing resilience, flexibility, and positive reinforcement while managing difficulties such as food, sleep, and toilet training. Tan leans into realistic goal-setting, personal self-care, and avoiding burnout, and critiques disciplinary measures that include corporal punishment, urging instead for positive reinforcement as more effective for neurodivergent children. Tan champions building supportive communities, managing relationships, and promoting emotional safety while respecting children's unique needs.
How to Be a Neuro-Affirmative Parent by Hwee Peng Tan is a standout in the parenting genre and a book that I wish I had access to decades ago. But it is here now, offering a refreshing approach to raising neurodivergent children for contemporary readers. Tan's writing style is what I would call conversationally academic; it is intelligent and exhaustively researched but conveyed in a way that is relatable and accessible to readers across the board. Of course, Tan contributes her own personal experiences, which are given with actionable insight and create a great sense of connection. This is the first time I ever felt “heard” while reading, and it's hard to describe since I'm not even the one doing the talking, but that's how personal the work feels. Overall, Tan gives us all an invitation to embrace a shift in mindset, moving beyond societal expectations and toward a more inclusive, compassionate parenting style. Very highly recommended.
