Reviewed by Alissa Deann for Readers' Favorite

Dying to Live: Finding Life's Meaning Through Death by Andy Chaleff is a well-written book that shows how accepting death can influence the way we live. Chaleff shares some of the losses he experienced, starting from his childhood when he lost his pet, to the death of his mother, and how his father lived his life. He explains how these losses helped in changing his perception of death. He also shares how travel exposed him to different cultures and their response to death. Chaleff talks about his struggle with night terrors and how he learned helpful practices like surrender, mindfulness, and acceptance. Dying to Live teaches readers that facing death directly, whether through personal loss, cultural exploration, or meditative practices, can help us let go of heavy emotions, accept life's impermanence, and live with greater purpose, love, and awareness.

I really enjoyed this book. I loved how Chaleff was honest in his writing; I could feel his fears, pain, and even his confusion. I loved the concept of "little deaths," which he explained as losing a relationship or sense of home. It made me reflect on some close friendships and relationships I had with people over the years that ended due to certain reasons, and how those moments helped in shaping who I am today. Chaleff's story, especially from his time in Japan, shows how accepting death as a natural part of life can help in reducing our fear of death. I love the meditation questions at the end of each chapter; they were touching and gave me time to pause and reflect on my fears. This book does not try to fix grief or fears, but instead is a comforter and helps readers find peace in facing them. It encouraged me to focus on what truly matters before it's too late. Dying to Live: Finding Life's Meaning Through Death by Andy Chaleff covers themes of grief, legacy, and the search for meaning. I recommend it to readers who would love to change their perceptions about death and find out what really matters.