Reviewed by K.C. Finn for Readers' Favorite
My Deal: How Playboy Raised Me from Poverty to Power is a work of non-fiction in the memoir, social issues, and slice-of-life genres. It is best suited to the general adult reading audience. Penned by author Mary Sharina, this engrossing memoir details the author’s journey from a post-war country girl in England to finding herself and her agency through an unconventional career at the London Playboy Club. Raised in a working-class family, Sharina embraced the opportunity to escape poverty and enter a glamorous world. Eventually, she left the high life to settle in Canada with her true love. The memoir challenges the labels of ‘gold digger’ or ‘sugar baby,’ seeking a fairer judgment of her choices than the patriarchal world around her gave her at the time.
Author Mary Sharina has crafted a fantastically eye-opening and inspiring memoir with a lot to learn and plenty of fresh perspectives on gender, sex, and culture. Sharina's journey highlighted her resilience and moxie at every turn of her unusual life, and this is reflected in the vibrance, warmth, and true grit of her narrative style. It feels like we’re being told this life story by someone with a strong sense of holding her own, and that’s evident in her ability to seize opportunities and navigate the glamorous yet challenging world of Playboy. It makes for a read that is both impressive and thought-provoking as Sharina's story challenges societal judgments and stereotypes, urging readers to consider the complexities behind her choices. The events are organized to deliver a fully rounded picture of a life well-lived, and a life lived for oneself, never to anyone else’s expectations, which is so refreshing to see. The memoir's candid exploration of empowerment and agency is sure to resonate deeply with any marginalized person trying to break new ground, in this case offering a nuanced perspective on this incredible woman's journey to self-discovery and independence. Overall, My Deal is a must-read memoir for anyone with a particular interest in empowering women’s writing.