Pearl, Our Butterfly

Pearl Books #3

Children - Social Issues
32 Pages
Reviewed on 09/14/2024
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Author Biography

Tuula Pere (b. 1958) holds a Ph.D. in Law and is an award-winning children’s author from Helsinki, Finland. Her doctoral dissertation, published in 2015, examines the limits of freedom of speech in the Finnish mass media amidst the social and cultural shifts of the 1960s and 1970s. Prior to her doctoral research, Tuula Pere had a career spanning over two decades as a lawyer and held various expert and executive positions in large industrial companies.
Since 2010, Tuula Pere has published over sixty children's books, many of which have been translated into multiple languages. She has also authored poetry and aphorisms for children, as well as short stories and non-fiction for adults. Tuula Pere is an avid music and sports enthusiast and a keen baker. She is married and the mother of three.

    Book Review

Reviewed by Constance Stadler for Readers' Favorite

The theme of Pearl, Our Butterfly by Tuula Pere is to offer children a different way of seeing things. Helping a child understand death is one of life's greatest challenges. The notion of losing a loved one is often incomprehensible to a young mind. When we first encounter Jacob, he exudes the playful energy and dedication of a devoted brother. His sister, Pearl, has been terminally ill since birth -- and as she lay in her crib, he did all he could to bring her joy. Simultaneously, Jacob grappled with why a multitude of specialists couldn't cure his baby sister, who eventually required hospice care. His perspective shifted when he was tasked with a class project to create a model of a luminous butterfly. Jacob began to see them as reflections of why his baby sister was so special -- a life-changing realization. The rest of the story focuses on how he came to terms with Pearl's inevitable fate, relying on perceiving through a different lens, where hospital blankets became chrysalises, and her passing became a transformative moment of freedom for both of them.

Pearl, Our Butterfly is an invaluable book. While addressing such a delicate subject, the tone remains uplifting yet consistently honest. Vibrant illustrations by Catty Flores complement a narrative addressing the questions a youngster would naturally ask when facing similar circumstances. Telling the story through Pearl's brother makes the incremental shifts from life to death easier for a young reader to comprehend. Whether the loss is of a grandparent, a sibling, or any loved one, when a parent and child read this together, the story can be an excellent conduit for conversations that go far to assuage fears, mollify confusion, and enable a young reader to better cope with pain. By offering an alternative perspective, death becomes discussable. What Tuula Pere has written is an excellent addition to the library of any family with young children. Even if there is no immediate need, a young reader will have a firm understanding of life cycles when it likely arises, which is significant.

Pikasho Deka

Tuula Pere brings the third installment in the Pearl Books series with Pearl, Our Butterfly. Sometimes, Jacob likes to shout during recess at school. When his teacher asks him why, he tells her it's because he can't make any loud noises at home as his baby sister Pearl is seriously disabled, and he doesn't want to disturb her. Ever since his parents brought her home, Jacob knew his sister was special, and he liked to sing to her. When Jacob learns about butterflies in class, it reminds him of his sister's big beautiful eyes. But these days, his parents spend a lot of time in the hospital with Pearl, leaving Jacob at his grandma's. Grandma tells him that Pearl will be put in a hospice as she doesn't have much time. With Grandma's help, Jacob learns to navigate his sister's loss.

A bittersweet story about loss, love, and family, Pearl, Our Butterfly celebrates the life of a dearly departed one. This picture book allows young readers to accept and embrace the loss of their loved ones and cherish memories as they leave their mark even after death. Tuula Pere wonderfully wraps up the story of Pearl with this book. It's not a very happy story, but an important one that introduces young readers to the concepts of loss and grief. The story is heartbreaking yet poignant. Pere is a master at evoking strong emotions and feelings in the reader in a short span of pages. I honestly felt for Jacob when he compared his sister to a butterfly. It is a very beautiful story that I highly recommend to both parents and young readers.

Diana Lopez

Pearl, Our Butterfly by Tuula Pere will allow children to explore complex emotions such as love, loss, and grief. Jacob adores his little sister Pearl, who needs special care due to a severe illness. His parents spend much time at the hospital with her, while his grandmother takes care of Jacob and answers all his questions about the situation. He knows that the time will come to say goodbye, and he worries that Pearl will not return from the hospital someday. Meanwhile, he learns about butterflies at school and creates one of clay and silk paper with his sister in mind, hoping to show it to her. But when things get complicated, the family realizes it's time to let the baby go.

Pearl, Our Butterfly is as sad as it is beautiful. The butterfly analogy is an excellent choice to address the cycle of life. Tuula Pere teaches children clear lessons about life and death. Her narration is impressive, and I liked the use of various settings such as school, home, and hospital. The story is moving: despite Jacob's limitations, such as the silence needed in his house, he does his best to care for Pearl. He is an example of empathy and understanding, capable of inspiring young readers to value family relationships. By identifying with the characters, children will learn that it is natural to feel sadness or homesickness and that these feelings can be expressed in healthy ways. I also loved the illustrations by Catty Flores, especially the shades of blue that reflect sadness while highlighting Jacob's deep love and affection for Pearl.

Bruce Arrington

Pearl, Our Butterfly by Tuula Pere is a children’s illustrated book about life and death. This is the third book about Pearl, who was born with physical difficulties which she does not ever recover from. Jacob is her older brother and always tries to make life easier for Pearl, including helping his parents with her care. As time passes, Pearl weakens and eventually passes away, making this book one that will pull on your heartstrings. However, I also like to think of this book being about Jacob, and everything he goes through during Pearl’s decline. He knows he cannot make loud noises at home, so he makes them in the schoolyard instead. He finds comfort in knowing that when he sings to Pearl, it helps make her feel better. His sister is constantly on his mind, even when he is modeling school projects such as butterflies. We see his angst as he goes through the stages of worry and fear. We find him gaining comfort from his grandmother when he is sad. And we finally can see death through his eyes when Pearl dies.

The topic of death and dying, especially when it concerns children, is very difficult for many people to deal with. There are so many emotions involved, but this book explores them, helps us go through them, and helps us to see life from the perspective of a loving child, and thereby we gain great comfort, even when death comes. This book is an absolute treasure for families going through trying times as this book illustrates. I highly recommend Pearl, Our Butterfly (Pearl Books #3), by Tuula Pere. Such a beautiful and poignant story!