Raising Jess

A Story of Hope

Non-Fiction - Memoir
207 Pages
Reviewed on 03/14/2022
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Author Biography

Vickie Rubin’s memoir, “Raising Jess A Story of Hope,” is the recipient of the Gold Medal Award from Reader’s Favorite International.
Vickie graduated with her master’s degree in Exceptional Education from SUNY Buffalo State College with the President’s Award for Outstanding Graduate Student. Her
Before writing her book, Vickie was the director of the Early Childhood Direction Center (ECDC) for Oishei Children’s Hospital, Kaleida Health, a New York State Education Department grant-funded program. Vickie is experienced working with families of children with special needs and professionals and presenting workshops on various topics related to improving outcomes for young children. Vickie is a frequent contributor to The Buffalo News, My View section.
Vickie and her husband Mitch celebrated their 42nd wedding anniversary in 2021. They have three children and three grandchildren, and two very active dogs. You may also know her from her Blog website Vickie’s Views, a humorous, inspiring commentary about various topics, including raising a child with a disability, and observations of everyday life, family, and marriage. Visit her website at www.vickierubin.com

    Book Review

Reviewed by Emily-Jane Hills Orford for Readers' Favorite

Being a parent can be challenging at the best of times. Add the additional factor of a special needs child and the workload multiplies substantially, but, then again, so does the love and the inevitable learning curve that goes along with these needs. Jess was born prematurely; her mother suffering from chickenpox at the time. She was born in an era (the 1980s) that continued to foster the notion that a mother, concerned about certain growth patterns in her child, was actually a hypochondriac. Even though the family lived in a thriving metropolis, the medical professionals appeared to be far behind in the growing numbers of diverse special needs children being born every year. This only added to the difficulties: not knowing why Jess wasn’t developing ‘normally,’ and not knowing how to help her, the parents and grandparents were scrambling to research and determine how best to identify and help Jess’s special needs.

Vickie Rubin’s memoir, Raising Jess: A Story of Hope, is a heartwarming, compassionate story about a mother’s (and father’s) enduring love through difficult and challenging times. The author leads the reader on a journey through Jess’s life, right up to the growing concern of the global pandemic and how it might affect this charming, special needs child-turned-young woman. The story unfolds from the mother’s perspective, including journal entries and medical reports that document the growing concerns and research required to help this special child. The language is pure and to the point, pulling the reader right into this one family’s story; for a story about a special needs child is more than a child’s story, it’s a family’s story. The inclusion of a family photo album, pictures taken over the years, adds to the warmth and revealing love that engulf this story. This story will bring tears to the eyes of readers as they are educated and enraptured by one family’s journey with a special needs child. Thanks for sharing your story.

Diane

Mary P
5.0 out of 5 stars A great and inspiring read!
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Mary P
5.0 out of 5 stars A great and inspiring read!

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Vickie Rubin’s heartfelt account of raising her daughter Jess is a must read for anyone who has a family member with a disability. She put into words how she and Mitch never gave up on their goals for Jessica. The story also brings to the surface how people with cognitive or physical differences are capable of so much more than most people realize. She masterfully described how Jessica’s disability also affected her siblings as well as other family members. Her years of research and the explanation of how they pursued different therapies for Jess will help many families pave the way for more effective and meaningful services for their family members. As a person whose career involved working with people with disabilities, I realize how important a family’s involvement can be. Vickie not only advocated for Jess relentlessly after she lived in a group home, but she showed her readers how to collaboratively work with the staff members who worked with Jess. An inspiring read for anyone!

J. Christopher

5.0 out of 5 stars Most inspirational book I've read in a long time!

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I read this book on the recommendation from a friend. I'm so glad she recommended it because it is such a story of hope and inspiration! It is the story of a disabled child, Jess, and the challenges and triumphs she and her family experience. The author, Jess's mom Vickie Rubin, writes with candor, humor, wit, and wisdom. You will feel you know Rubin as a friend by the end of the book. You will be inspired by Jess and her amazing family!

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Bridget M Gillman
5.0 out of 5 stars This a truly a story about unconditional love!

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Super easy read! It’s hard to put this book down! ❤️ Heartwarming and heartbreaking at the same time! Jess is a teacher to all of us and Vicky is still teaching us through this amazing book!

Jeff 14020

5.0 out of 5 stars Compelling, compassionate, great read for all!

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Vickie is an incredible writer who takes you along on a very personal journey of Raising Jess. She not only shares her experiences but spent time “interviewing” other family members to try and understand their experiences with Jess as well, which I found very compelling. I read this book in two days because I was so sucked in. Although this would be an important read for anyone involved with persons with disabilities, it is also an important book for anyone with a beating heart. Great read!!

Diane

Diane
5.0 out of 5 stars A must-read for ALL parents

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As a parent of a child with special needs, it is incredibly helpful to read about a family's journey into the unknown. As I have learned throughout the years, my most useful and compassionate information is from families that have and are going through the same thing. It doesn't have to be the same diagnosis, just the fact of living your life with a child that just needs a different way of living. Thank you, Vicki and Jess, for sharing your amazing and inspiring story.

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5.0 out of 5 stars Thank You!

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I just finished this book. It was so inspiring to hear about the hope and the love shared by your family and friends made family. I think that’s the biggest takeaway for me- that the people we build our lives with and the journey we take each other on is what it’s all about. Thanks for sharing and what an incredible reminder of how important it is to show up for the ones we love.

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Ashley Adams
5.0 out of 5 stars Shaken and Stirred

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This is an inspiring story of tragedy and triumph, brilliantly and powerfully told. Vickie Rubin writes an extremely accessible account of her personal experience of raising a disabled daughter. It is moving, extremely well told, and compelling. It is also useful as a manual for active and compassionate parenting. I highly recommend it. In fact, I was so taken by this incredible book that I have ordered extra copies as gifts to people I love.

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5.0 out of 5 stars Honest and Heartwarming

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I could not put this book down. It tells the story of a family faced with adversity, how they coped and overcame many hurdles. I loved the details and honesty and I loved the pictures of Jess! Her smile is infectious.

Lori Newberg


5.0 out of 5 stars A Heartfelt Book of Pure Love ❤️

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Vickie Rubin is an Author who Has a very Personal way of putting her thoughts into the written word. I felt as if Vickie was talking right to me on my deck as I read , Raising Jess.
So much Warmth and Truth, She reveals her Soul to the reader. A Must Read for All ❤️