Grandpa Day

Nurturing Grit, Smarts, and Love in the Next Generation

Non-Fiction - Self Help
Kindle Edition
Reviewed on 04/15/2026
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Reviewed by Jamie Michele for Readers' Favorite

Grandpa Day: Nurturing Grit, Smarts, and Love in the Next Generation by Perry Solomon is a guide that digs into how new grandfathers often feel at a loss about their own relevance, and gives his ideas on presence and attention as the backbone of effective involvement. He sets up current expectations next to mid twentieth century patterns, speaking on how participation was limited because of work and shorter life expectancies. Solomon describes recurring “Grandpa Days” designed around each child’s interests, showing how repeated shared activities build trust and security over time. Examples involving aviation, music, reading, and food illustrate how observation guides planning and supports interest development. Solomon champions cooperation with parents, respect for routines, and calmer settings (such as meals). He documents methods for mentoring through listening, shared experiences, community, and adaptable use of technology.

Grandpa Day by Perry Solomon is the book most grandfathers probably did not know that they needed, and it is a wonderful wealth of knowledge. Solomon has the experience of being a grandparent himself, and I love that he uses his own stories with his grandchildren and applies them as examples to all that he shares. The writing style is straightforward and conversational, feeling more like a chat than a guide, and, most importantly, it is relevant to contemporary relationships and child rearing. Solomon's approach looks to the present and the future, and does not rely on the usual “back in my day” as a reference on bonds today. The standout to me is the respect given to children as participants, and not simply kids going along with Grandpa. The effect is encouraging and practical, leaving readers prepared to actually show up with patience and love during everyday moments together. Overall, this is the perfect companion for grandfathers ready to be genuine companions to their grandkids themselves.

Carol Thompson

Grandpa Day: Nurturing Grit, Smarts, and Love in the Next Generation by Perry Solomon offers a practical guide for grandfathers looking to build meaningful relationships with their grandchildren. Drawing from over twenty years of personal experience with his six grandchildren, Solomon provides a wealth of wisdom, stories, and advice to help grandfathers embrace their special role as mentors, cheerleaders, and steady presences in their families. The book is divided into ten chapters, each exploring a different aspect of grandfatherhood, from overcoming initial fears and uncertainties to celebrating each grandchild's uniqueness. The inclusion of "Grandpa Wisdom" one-liners adds a charming touch, giving quick, easy-to-remember life lessons that children can remember and use.

Perry Solomon highlights the importance of active listening, emotional connection, and the establishment of traditions like "Grandpa Days," special one-on-one outings tailored to each grandchild’s interests. He shares practical strategies for teaching grandchildren resilience, critical thinking, and the value of perseverance. His stories, such as mentoring his granddaughter Serena in her journey to becoming a craft chocolatier, illustrate how small moments of encouragement can spark lifelong passions. He also highlights the importance of respecting boundaries, celebrating uniqueness, and modeling authenticity, which helps grandchildren develop confidence and emotional security. Grandpa Day is filled with thoughtful advice and personal stories, making it a valuable resource. Readers who enjoy the wisdom and family-focused storytelling of Mitch Albom or the practical, relationship-building advice of Bruce Feiler will find Grandpa Day equally inspiring. Fans of books that blend personal anecdotes with actionable life lessons will appreciate Solomon’s warm and insightful approach to grandparenting.

Leonard Smuts

Having a grandchild is a life-changing experience that brings opportunity and joy. Perry Solomon explores this theme in Grandpa Day: Nurturing Grit, Smarts, and Love in the Next Generation. He encourages grandfathers to become active and loving grandparents, mentoring their grandchildren without taking over the role of the parents. Grandparents are free to encourage curiosity, share traditions, have adventures, and teach grandchildren about money, savings, and generosity. Offering a strong foundation and providing guidance will build their self-confidence. The author recommends having a Grandpa Day, such as going on outings built around their favorite interests. This will introduce grandchildren to arts, crafts, and museums to encourage learning and creativity. Baby sitting provides opportunities to bond, as do mealtimes and visiting familiar haunts. Grandpa Day reminds readers that the role of being a grandfather has evolved from being a distant patriarch to becoming actively involved and providing guidance and empathy.

Perry Solomon brings the warmth of connecting with grandchildren to the reader. It is about building affinity and sharing special moments. The book is a perfect introduction to becoming a grandfather, as well as bringing fresh ideas if you already have grandchildren. It is natural to have doubts and concerns about being a role model, but life is not a perfect process. It nevertheless presents an opportunity to grow with your grandchildren, while adapting to their evolving needs one step at a time. The author shares heartwarming moments that he experienced with his six grandchildren, describing the activities that they could share and how this strengthened family bonds. I found the account of his exploits with his granddaughter Serena, inspired by her fascination with chocolate from the age of three, to be particularly endearing. The writing style is enchanting, reflecting the love, joy, and pride of being a grandfather. It is filled with practical wisdom and ideas on how to build the relationship between grandfather and grandchild, as well as pointing out mistakes to avoid and overcoming challenges. Grandpa Day is entertaining, informative, and highly recommended.

David Jaggart

Grandpa Day: Nurturing Grit, Smarts, and Love in the Next Generation by Perry Solomon is a moving book for grandfathers who would like to build strong relationships with their grandkids. The author shares what he learned over more than twenty years with his own six grandchildren. He draws inspiration from simple outings and meaningful chats to show how small moments can really shape a child’s confidence and curiosity about the world around them. He explains how the role of a grandfather has changed from a distant individual to someone involved in their grandchild's life. The book describes how Grandpa Days, family traditions, and honest communication help children become independent while feeling loved. The message is clear—modern grandfathers can make their best impact through love, patience, and genuine care.

Perry Solomon’s Grandpa Day is both a practical and personal self-help guide. It is written in a calm, thoughtful style that makes the author's guidance very easy to understand. The book blends family-life storytelling, gentle humor, and sincere advice, giving readers a clear picture of how relationships grow over years of shared routines and patient teaching. I admire how the author paints children as individuals with their own identities, rather than mini versions of their parents. I also love how he portrays grandfatherhood as an active role. The focus on simple experiences—hobbies, books, walks, meals, music—makes the guide feel even more sincere. Readers who enjoy parenting guides or family memoirs will find this book warm, enlightening, and encouraging. I highly recommend reading it.

Diana Lopez

Sometimes grandparents don't know how to approach their grandchildren because generational changes can feel pronounced. It's normal to have doubts, but the important thing is always to be present and actively participate in young people's lives. This way, they can share life experiences and guide them on the right path. That's why Perry Solomon shares Grandpa Day with us. In this guide, he begins by talking about the first time he had to take care of his granddaughter and how nervous he felt, but in the end, everything turned out fine. He then describes how his interactions with his other grandchildren developed and what he learned from spending time with them. Through his anecdotes, he offers tips for building strong and loving relationships. He also suggests practical ideas for teaching children to think for themselves and develop healthy self-esteem.

I loved Perry Solomon's stories. Ever since his grandchildren were little, he dedicated individual time to each of them. That allowed him to get to know them in a deep and personal way, leading him to participate in unexpected activities. For example, one of his granddaughters loves chocolate, so together they learned about artisanal chocolate. I liked the writing style for its honesty and the effort Perry puts into being involved with each grandchild's life. He also addresses important issues, such as the changes that occur as children grow up. When one of his grandchildren grew up and lost interest in certain outings, they changed activities. They preferred to have lunch together because it allowed them to talk more. Grandpa Day illustrates how family bonds are strengthened over time and through shared living experiences.