I Will Be the Woman He Loved

Learning to Live Again on the Thames Path

Non-Fiction - Memoir
296 Pages
Reviewed on 06/23/2025
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Reviewed by K.C. Finn for Readers' Favorite

I Will Be the Woman He Loved: Learning to Live Again on the Thames Path by Tania Romanov is a deeply personal memoir about loss, love, and identity. Tania Romanov, once a pioneering tech CEO, embarks on a two-week walk along England's Thames Path following the death of her husband Harold. As she reflects on their life together and her battles as a trailblazer in a male-dominated world, she confronts the challenges of redefining herself after losing both her soulmate and her career. This reflective journey captures her resilience, grief, and rediscovery of life after immense personal loss. Romanov crafts a narrative that moved me deeply with its raw honesty and emotional depth and is deeply rewarding for anyone seeking strength and inspiration.

Tania Romanov's vivid writing style takes readers along on every step of her journey, from the heart-wrenching moments of loss to the quiet revelations along the Thames Path, and there's a novel-like sense of description and atmosphere in these moments that makes them easy to imagine and hard to forget. What particularly stands out is her ability to weave together multiple threads of her life story, connecting her pioneering experiences as a woman in tech with her personal journey through grief. The way she details her pre-#MeToo era experiences in the tech industry provides a fascinating insight into the challenges women faced, while her reflections on identity and resilience spoke to me as someone who has also faced major life transitions. I was especially touched by how she explores the process of rebuilding oneself after losing both a life partner and a career identity, offering hope to others facing similar challenges. Overall, I highly recommend I Will Be the Woman He Loved: Learning to Live Again on the Thames Path for anyone seeking a thoughtful exploration of love, loss, and personal reinvention.

Mansoor Ahmed

I Will Be the Woman He Loved by Tania Romanov is a touching memoir that brings to light how the author suffered from loss and grief as well as the subsequent need to recover after her husband’s death, Harold. While walking along the Thames Path with two friends, Romanov reflects on her marriage, the stresses of life after losing a loved one, and the reasons it is worthwhile to live. In the form of a memoir, the author blends thoughts in beads with captivating images of the landscape, a distinctive feature of the terrain. These elements include the bitterness of loss, patience, the strength of will, and faith that can make even the most difficult tasks in life easier.

Tania Romanov creates an emotional and sensitive picture, combined with bright, resourceful, and hopeful prose that resonates with readers who have experienced similar struggles in their own lives. The memoir moves slowly but pleasingly, focusing more on Tania's inner journey than the actual journey along the Thames Path. The narrative rhythm made me feel what Tania had gone through and the growth and transformation she experienced along the way. The people, mostly herself, her late husband, and her close friends, are portrayed with a great deal of emotion, which gives them a genuine and accessible quality. Tania writes in a lyrical yet direct style that enables readers to relate to her experiences on a personal level while handling themes of love, loss, and rebirth with grace. I highly recommend I Will Be the Woman He Loved to anyone who has experienced the anguish of loss and difficulty in moving on.