Lead Last

Twenty-One Counterintuitive Principles for Becoming an Effective Leader

Non-Fiction - Business/Finance
200 Pages
Reviewed on 04/04/2026
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Author Biography

Olaolu Ogunyemi is a U.S. Marine Officer, award-winning author, and leadership strategist dedicated to developing resilient, purpose-driven leaders at work and home. As the Founder of Parent-Child-Connect, Olaolu bridges the gap between high-stakes military discipline and the intentionality required for modern mentorship.

Olaolu is the author of the Amazon best-selling "Crow From the Shadow" and a recipient of the Marine Corps University Foundation’s Command and Control Writing Award. His work—ranging from recruitment and tactical IT strategy in the Marine Corps Gazette to faith-based resilience on the YouVersion Bible App—is unified by a single mission: equipping influencers to lead with contagious energy and practical frameworks.

Whether he is speaking to corporate executives or classrooms, Olaolu delivers a message of "Marine Corps discipline meets fatherly heart" that transforms how we lead the next generation.

Connect with him at www.parent-child-connect.com.

    Book Review

Reviewed by Stewart Brian for Readers' Favorite

Lead Last: 21 Counterintuitive Principles for Becoming an Effective Leader by Olaolu Ogunyemi is a well-written, practical guide that explores the concept of true leadership and equips individuals with the traits and tools to become effective and efficient leaders. In three parts, using seven leadership principles in each part, Olaolu challenges prospective leaders to take an introspective look at who they are and their purpose, understand who they are leading to allow for a people-first leadership, become leaders that influence culture, and provide an environment for creativity and innovation. Olaolu examines the impact of insecurity on leaders and their need to be stable and level-headed. However, to understand why we respond the way we do, this book features the crucial 'Whys?' to ask as we reflect on our perspective.

I appreciated every aspect of this author's writing. I think no aspect of leadership was left out in this book. It takes an exceptional leader and writer to come up with such powerful principles for leaders. I commend the author for including graphs, charts, illustrative diagrams, a nurturing growth cheat sheet, and more, as they added to my reading pleasure. Also, the writing style was unique, brilliantly organized, straight to the point, and easy to comprehend. I loved the pace of the personal stories shared, the key insights, and the quotes. These all made the principles discussed engaging, relatable, and practicable. I recommend Lead Last by Olaolu Ogunyemi to all leaders in business and other organizations in society. Anyone passionate about leadership will definitely appreciate this book.

Jamie Michele

In Lead Last: 21 Counterintuitive Principles for Becoming an Effective Leader, Olaolu Ogunyemi presents a leadership philosophy centered on emotional intelligence, self-awareness, and long-term cultural impact. He identifies personal insecurity as a core leadership challenge, often leading to harmful behaviors like micromanagement. Ogunyemi encourages leaders to address this through introspective tools and clarity of values. Drawing from military, corporate, and personal experiences, he outlines practical strategies to build trust, amplify team engagement, and overcome conflict. Ogunyemi speaks on adaptability, accountability, and the importance of understanding individual motivations in a team. He also talks about the role of leaders in shaping organizational culture, maintaining professionalism, and responding constructively to change. With all this and more, Ogunyemi's approach leans into sustainable leadership and ethical influence over authority or recognition.

Lead Last by Olaolu Ogunyemi is a thoughtfully written guide that marries clarity with timely relevance, offering readers a no-nonsense take on leadership grounded in everyday examples and recognizable frameworks. The writing is crisp and direct, avoiding unnecessary jargon while still delivering structured, applicable concepts that are easy to internalize. The use of pop culture references and real-life anecdotes adds texture without undermining the seriousness of the message. The strength of this book lies in its ability to balance strategic depth with accessibility, making it especially useful for readers at any leadership level. His disciplined style reflects the values he promotes. Whether referencing a Marine Corps anecdote or SpongeBob SquarePants, the material is smartly chosen and purposefully placed. It’s a book that encourages steady execution rather than abstract ideals, making it a useful companion for leaders who prefer action over theory. Very highly recommended.

Diana Lopez

Being a leader involves more than simply delegating responsibilities. You need to be willing to learn, listen, and prioritize the needs of other team members over your own. To achieve this naturally and efficiently, Olaolu Ogunyemi shares Lead Last: 21 Counterintuitive Principles for Becoming an Effective Leader. He talks about three main aspects. First, he emphasizes the importance of knowing yourself, dealing with insecurities, and being kind to your colleagues while remaining clear. Next, take the time to understand your colleagues by being patient and helping them build the trust they require. Finally, you must understand your work strategy, face challenges with courage, and look for creative solutions to adapt to change.

Lead Last is an excellent guide for beginners and professionals. Olaolu Ogunyemi demonstrates that it is not necessary to be the center of attention, but rather to create a collaborative environment where everyone is moving in the same direction. You don't need to have all the answers, but you do need to listen to the team to bind them together because that's what collaboration is all about. His words are inspiring because they are based on his experience, and he also includes examples of great entrepreneurs. I liked the clarity and simplicity of the language, which is personal, concrete, and direct, making the chapters short and easy to understand. The lively and enthusiastic writing style captures attention and reflects his ability to communicate effectively. In addition, the author emphasizes that you don't have to change your personality to fit a stereotypical leader, but rather be yourself and adapt your style to manage your team.