Why You Should Never Have Children


Non-Fiction - Parenting
114 Pages
Reviewed on 04/17/2025
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Reviewed by K.C. Finn for Readers' Favorite

Why You Should Never Have Children by DJ Dean is a bold, honest take on what parenting is really like. It skips the sugarcoating and gets straight to the tough parts, breaking through all the usual 'having kids is the best thing ever' talk you might be hearing everywhere. Instead of pushing the idea that having kids is the natural next step in life, Dean lays out all the reasons why staying childfree might actually be the better option. The book lists the many struggles of parenting and it also makes a strong case for why choosing not to have kids can lead to more freedom, happiness, and a life that truly feels like your own. With sharp humor and real-life stories, Dean challenges the idea that everyone should want children and gives a fresh perspective for anyone questioning if that path is really right for them.

DJ Dean’s writing is direct, funny, and completely unapologetic, which made me rethink a lot of things I had always just accepted as true. Even though the topic is serious, the humor keeps it engaging, and the arguments are laid out in a way that makes total sense without ever feeling pushy. One of the things I liked most was how the book isn’t just about why parenting is tough, because it also gives real advice on how to build a fulfilling life without kids. Dean also does a great job of tackling the pressures people face, like family expectations and the whole 'biological clock' idea, but it's done in a way that feels both thoughtful and reassuring. There’s solid research behind everything, so it doesn’t just feel like personal opinion when it’s backed up with facts. Overall, Why You Should Never Have Children is an eye-opening and important read for anyone thinking about what they really want in life and I would definitely recommend it.

Luwi Nyakansaila

Why You Should Never Have Children by DJ Dean is a self-help guide highlighting the benefits of choosing not to have children. Due to societal pressure and limited sources sharing knowledge about the downside of being a parent, many people find themselves having children and later regretting the opportunities they miss out on. In this book, the author shares his personal experiences, emphasizing the financial freedom, extra time for exercise and socializing, and health benefits he enjoys from living a child-free lifestyle. DJ Dean argues that by reframing the narrative around parenthood and exploring the joys of autonomy, individuals can make more informed decisions about whether or not to have children. He emphasizes that embracing a life without children can lead to greater personal fulfillment, improved mental health, and the freedom to pursue passions that may be sidelined by the demands of raising kids.

Why You Should Never Have Children is a thought-provoking narrative that presents compelling arguments in favor of adopting a child-free lifestyle. It encourages readers to critically examine societal norms surrounding parenthood. DJ Dean's discussions about financial capital, the freedom to make investments, and having enough time to prioritize personal growth provide valuable insights into prioritizing individual freedom, financial stability, and personal well-being over traditional expectations. It's important to note that the author does not discourage marriage or having children; rather, he invites readers to thoughtfully consider the implications of these choices. This book can better prepare them for the challenges of parenthood and help them make decisions that align with their life goals. The narrative is conversational and engaging, featuring chapter summaries and relatable examples. It is an easy read and a must-have for anyone considering a child-free lifestyle or pondering the implications of parenthood.

Pikasho Deka

Raising children is a big responsibility. Not everyone is suited to the task. According to DJ Dean, having children can be "apocalyptic" for your life. In Why You Should Never Have Children, Dean delves into the downsides of parenthood and presents some well-reasoned arguments as to why people who are not yet parents should stay away from having kids. Children decimate hobbies and interests, impact social life, weaken your health, and can be the primary driver of delayed retirement. Whether being a burden on your finances or affecting how you spend your time, children will change your life. They will lessen your vacation days, take a toll on your mental and physical health, add stress and anxiety, hinder your personal growth, and, in some cases, stop you from living the fulfilling life you've always wanted.

Unapologetic, concise, and engaging, Why You Should Never Have Children is a stimulating take on the choice of parenthood. Drawing inspiration from his own life, DJ Dean, a retired dentist and investor, offers valuable insights and observations on how beneficial and fulfilling a life without the hassle of raising children can be for adults. The author never shies away from sharing his strong opinions on the topic of parenthood, something he feels limits a person's choices in life. Dean has a personable and accessible writing style. The book is engaging and informative. Even if you don't necessarily agree with the author's opinions on the matter, there's no denying the facts presented in the book. Additionally, I enjoyed Dean's sense of humor and the light-hearted tone of this guide. I recommend this book to all readers interested, undecided, or disinterested in parenthood.