Thirteen and Underwater

One Mum's Heart-Warming Journey

Non-Fiction - Memoir
326 Pages
Reviewed on 04/28/2019
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Author Biography

I live in the gorgeous seaside town of Frankston in Australia, out numbered by my three men, and like some characters in GOT, I rule with a gentle, loving hand in my harmonious land,:)
I usually write psychology romance with a twist of horror and paranormal genres, and was finishing writing a book of a trilogy, when our world came crashing down when my eldest son was crippled with social anxiety.
We had been battling on and off again with the War that was raging silently within him, feeling absolutely lost, then, connecting with other parents, living with children, living with anxiety, all of us struggling, yet supporting the other, I thought, this is resilience. This is worthy to write about. Also, very therapeutic. And so, five years in the writing and re writing, Thirteen and Underwater came to be. I hope you can connect with our story, and I look forward to hearing yours if you ever want to share.
Warmly, Michelle.

    Book Review

Reviewed by Divine Zape for Readers' Favorite

It is 2014 and thirteen-year-old Jesse Weitering is struggling with anxiety, a condition that threatens to destroy the dynamics of their family. In Thirteen and Underwater: One Mum's Heart-Warming Journey, Michelle Weitering shares the heartwarming and painful journey of the family as they stand up for their son and refuse to sink under the overwhelming strain of anxiety. Told from the point of view of the mother, the story follows the relationship between mother and son and examines her fight against despair and the path towards acceptance and healing. Like most parents faced with similar situations, the author shares her fears and thoughts, opening up the wounds of her family to allow readers a glimpse of living with an adolescent whose sense of self is being destroyed by anxiety.

Michelle Weitering's memoir is an emotionally charged story that reflects a reality that would be a nightmare for many parents. It is interesting how the pain of her son's experiences rubs off on her. The hope and resilience of the mother in working hard to build a relationship with her son is beautifully portrayed. The reader is taken through moments of joy and pain and the author lays bare the secrets of her family. This memoir deftly handles themes of family, anxiety, love, hope, and healing. Thirteen and Underwater: One Mum's Heart-Warming Journey is written in a voice that is candid and engrossing. It is spellbinding and filled with emotional moments. Readers will also discover powerful lessons in dealing with anxiety and creating a healthy environment where their kids can evolve in self-confidence and trust.

Leanne

Hi Mickey, just want to let you know that I’m reading your book at the moment. and ’m finding it very hard to put down. You are a very caring woman and a brilliant writer. Love you❤️

WOW, just finished the book and am so amazed at your ‘s and Jesse’s journey. I’m probably one of those people that would have said that a smack was needed and who is the parent here, but you have opened my eyes to a much different way of seeing things. Love your work and would love to read your other books.

Liz Hicklin

What a story what a family You drew me in. I related in so many ways. Michelle, the fact that I know you and met family and friends I am in awe. This book will give hope to so many families. That as the Beatles said All you need is love. That book is going to take you into so many places , I am so lucky to know you Lizzy

Danielle Aitken

A story of life and love.
Thirteen and underwater tells the story of a Mother’s love for her son , struggling with mental illnesses and everything that entails.
The impacts on family and friends are well documented.
Compelling, !

Dannielle L

Brave and intensely emotional, this is the true story of a mother’s experience as she navigates her son’s world of anxiety and depression. Ms Weitering takes the reader through his childhood and shares deeply personal increments of their life together. Told with blunt honesty and a touch of humour, readers will find themselves moved by details stemming from childhood bullying by children to adults outside the immediate family group. Not only should they have known better, they were the ones she thought would offer support. The plight of a mother desperate to help her son and their family understand a situation in which they were figuratively drowning will even draw those who haven’t experienced these issues.

For those whose reality is anxiety and depression or live with someone they love who fights an internal battle every day, reading of another person’s experiences could make a huge difference. Imagine feeling less alone because you’ve connected with something you’ve read? Or because you’ve been in the same situation and understood exactly where the author was coming from and recognising the events in your own circumstances.

Ms Weitering’s openness and candour invites the reader into her world, draws you down into the heartache of not only herself but also her son’s. Her story leaves you with if not a deeper understanding, then certainly a more compassionate one. The author hopes that by sharing her story there might be one family who acts a little kinder to itself and finds the courage to seek help. I’m of the opinion this story will reach so many more.

Susan Wakefield

Depression and anxiety are real world, modern day struggles—more than at any other time in history we face higher societal challenges and pressures, harder working lives and more distractions than ever before in these technologically driven, fast paced times. Michelle Weitering has eloquently captured the struggles of this modern age through intimate snapshots and portraits of familial anxiety and resultant depression. Through the wise eyes of a mother in charge she brings us candidly into her home, and into the uphill battles she faces in preparing two sons for this harsh, cruel world. Thirteen and Underwater is deftly written, and Weitering shines an honest light on anxiety and depression —with a keen emphasis on being kinder, reminding us all to come more from a place of forgiveness through understanding, which the world desperately needs to hear.

Leah Martin

I found this book so relevant to the goings-on in today's society and the pressures that young people face on a day-to-day basis. The author has approached this heart-wrenching journey on such a positive and inspirational note that will be relatable to those suffering from a mental illness, or those in the role of caring for someone that is suffering from mental illness. It was written in such a way that although at times I had tears, I also had constant laughter. An engaging easy read.