Black Sheep Rising

Self-Help Memoir

Non-Fiction - Memoir
490 Pages
Reviewed on 10/19/2026
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Reviewed by Asher Syed for Readers' Favorite

In Black Sheep Rising, Donna Theresa recounts a childhood that begins in Plainfield, New Jersey, where being named after the woman her father loved places her inside family hurt from birth. After her mother Ann leaves her father for Catonsville, Maryland, Donna grows up in a home marked by violence as she tries to understand affection and the role she has been given as the Black Sheep. Her stepfather Sunny brings financial comfort while crossing boundaries Donna is too young to understand, leaving her to make sense of adult behavior herself. Adolescence brings another move, this time to Columbia, where friendships and work expand her world as she begins making decisions beyond home. The memoir pairs these memories with guided questions that ask readers to examine inherited patterns and their understanding of themselves.

Donna Theresa’s Black Sheep Rising is an exceptional self-help memoir, written with a warmth that brings Donna close to the reader. The author has a gift for showing how a single person can alter someone’s sense of possibility, and Ms. Beere proves it when she calls Donna creative, sending the student home to learn what that description might hold for her future. Manny’s lesson about Donna’s body being sacred is another example of how the book gives language to moments that can redirect a life. The adolescent years show the same understanding of formative influence through a Columbia community group that trusts teenagers with its building, giving Donna room to recognize her organizing ability. Cousin Lawson brings that quality home through the nurturing regard he shows Donna while honoring their family relationship. Inspiring in its honesty, readers drawn to memoirs that invite thoughtful self-examination will find that here. Very highly recommended.

Ruffina Oserio

Black Sheep Rising by Donna Theresa starts with her birth in 1961 during a blizzard. She is named after her father’s mistress and enters the world already labeled as the Black Sheep. Her mother, Ann, never lets her forget it. The memoir documents her turbulent childhood in Plainfield, New Jersey, where she hides behind the bed with brothers Guy and Joel, spinning stories to survive the “fighting house.” It follows her through nine hard years in Catonsville, Maryland, where books become her escape. A stepfather called "Funny Sunny" betrays her trust, and her own mother cheers for the other girl in a fight she organizes herself. Adolescence takes Donna to the streets of Columbia and back to Plainfield, through first love, friendships, and betrayals that test her spirit. But can she gain her freedom and shed the label she has carried since childhood?

Black Sheep Rising is a self-help memoir about rising, and the author invites readers to answer questions that help them examine their lives and rise alongside her above the trauma they have experienced. Donna Theresa’s life is surrounded by complex people, including Ann, the mother who "votes for the winner," and Ms. Beere, the teacher who disciplines without destroying the self-worth of the students. The memoir has a strong sense of place, from the lawn-chair poverty in the Melvin Park Apartments to the library path guarded by “Flabby Lady” and her dog, Frog. Donna writes cleverly about breaking generational cycles, transforming pain into wisdom through every page. The prose is sparse; short sentences read like poetry, capturing the emotions, the pain, and the duality of freedom and despair. Her fragmented, verse-like prose makes the book a rhythmic, intimate, unflinching testimony.

Divine Zape

Black Sheep Rising: A Self-Help Memoir by Donna Theresa is written in a poetic style and reads as both a healing book and the author’s story. It begins with her childhood, born in 1961 during a blizzard in Plainfield, New Jersey, and moves through a turbulent adolescence in Maryland. Named after her father's mistress, her mother blames Donna for her own arrival. Donna immediately becomes the “Black Sheep” of the family and the scapegoat that bears the pain that was never hers to carry. The episodic chapters follow a mother who organizes a neighborhood fight and cheers for her daughter’s opponent and a stepfather whose kindness is the veneer that hides abuse. The public library becomes her sanctuary, along with Ms. Beere, a teacher, and strangers who offer unexpected help.

Donna Theresa writes in a style that will appeal to poetry fans, as each chapter of this engaging book ends with “Thought Reflections” that contain questions to help readers connect with the story. I was moved by how well the author explores pain and power in the same story. The tone is intimate, wry at times, and tinged with hurt, yet never yielding to self-pity or bitterness. Black Sheep Rising uses the image of a mother as a symbol, cleverly illustrating how it can inspire pain and a perennial sense of rejection. The plainspoken prose makes the story not only accessible but engaging with its deliberate tone. The author insists her mother's portrait holds light alongside harm. The fragmented, verse-like lineation in style slows trauma into breath-sized units: “Love and pain / got tied together early— / quietly.” This book packs a lot of insight into a journey from trauma to healing.